I’m honestly very surprised when a woman constantly does everything for her man, and then sincerely wonders why she became more of a “mom” for him than a beloved woman. How else can he perceive you if all you do is check to see if he’s wearing a hat so he doesn’t catch a cold, you have to prepare everything at home, because he won’t even cook his own pasta. And this goes on like this for a very long time, but instead of appreciating you and carrying you in his arms, he sits on your head. He is sure that this is how it should be and, moreover, the man firmly believes that you really like to look after him like this . But also keep in mind that if you have a child, you will already be caring for two children, who will also compete with each other for your attention to them. Like this. Are you ready for this? After all, with the birth of a child, your man will not magically change and will not suddenly start doing the laundry, cooking and also helping you and the baby, just forget about it. What you were taught is what you got in the end, but it is very difficult to re-teach later . After all, you quickly get used to good things and somehow you don’t really want to give up all this voluntarily. Therefore, your man can also be understood. After all, he had “all inclusive” for a long time, and then suddenly you need to start doing something yourself, well, who would like this at all, right? Therefore, in order not to get into such a situation with In the meantime, slightly slow down your desire to take care of a man. Reserve your maternal instinct for your unborn child, not for his father. He is already quite a big and independent boy. And if his mother didn’t “hand over” him to you, so to speak, “from hand to hand,” then he is not so independent. He lived somehow before you... Women, remember one thing: how you begin to develop your relationship at the beginning and how you show a man how he can behave with you and how not - that’s how your relationship will eventually “float.” Men have a good feel for who and how they can behave, who will look after them 24/7 and who definitely won’t. They won’t do more than you expect from them - so let your expectations be realistic and, most importantly, voiced clearly and understandably even in the very beginning. at the beginning of the relationship, so that he knows what awaits him. If everything suits you both and your needs and expectations converge and you can satisfy them for each other without constant sacrifices on your part, then you can safely start this relationship. If one of you will understand that this is not suitable for him - move on, without hopes that something is about to change for the better. It won't change, so don't waste your time. Take care of yourself. Good luck to you! Here you can place an order - my book “PRO love” You can find out more about all my courses here: my courses You can sign up for a consultation with me: here