Does your husband no longer seem as close and dear as he was at the very beginning of the relationship? And any attempts to talk turn into bright scandals and quarrels for several days? This cannot continue, we need to save the family! If this is not done in time, the relationship can no longer be “repaired”, and there will be only one thing ahead - divorce. It is important to understand at what period the turning point occurred, and to work with this problem. How to improve relations with your husband? Communicate, but there is one clarification. Such a simple but effective rule works almost everywhere and always. Remember: communication is not about expressing to your partner all your grievances from 20 years ago. Select your complaints, perhaps some of them are related not to your husband’s actions, but to your unfulfilled expectations. For productive conversations within the family, I recommend using the Conference technique. What is its essence? This technique is aimed at creating communication so that the whole family can better recognize and understand each other’s needs, desires and feelings. You and your spouse set aside an allotted amount of time to be together. Each person takes turns talking about what he considers necessary, while his interlocutor listens without interrupting. The amount of time for each participant in the “conference” is the same. Speak up, ask questions or even remain silent! The technique can be practiced both in pairs and with the whole family. Get closer! I recommend using the “Conference” technique on an ongoing basis. Remember the past, because once upon a time it hooked you with something! Try to bring back into your married life those traditions that existed a long time ago - at the very beginning of the relationship. Maybe you used to often go on picnics - stay in these comfortable conditions that once brought pleasure to the two of you. If it seems that you have no common interests, take care of everyday life. No, you will not quarrel if you communicate competently with your spouse. Spending time together is aimed at ensuring that you can find compromises and form partnership cohesion. Communicate, negotiate, and somewhere make concessions. Pay attention to yourself. Often, the cause of a quarrel between spouses can be an ordinary “everyday life” - an uncleaned plate or scattered things. You shouldn’t immediately take the position of an aggressor, pay attention to yourself - how do you feel, why did these emotions come out at the moment? This may just be a trigger, but the problem turns out to be deeper. Perhaps you are very tired at work or “haven’t had a good day.” First, analyze your vision of the situation, and then evaluate your partner. If the root of the problem is your spouse, discuss it. And how to do it correctly, read in the first paragraph. You can find a way out of any situation, sign up for a consultation to identify the root causes of discord in the family.