Victim is a very advantageous position to force everyone to owe themselves. It's fashionable and very intrusive. There are only victims all around: any quality of one’s is given - from the physical to the injured ancestors. Moreover, the right declared by the victim is invented and unsubstantiated. In fact, the “victim” has a carefully disguised dominant right to take, which she can realize in this way. Victims very skillfully and constantly blame everyone around them, so that those around them always remember that they, the victim, always owe it. For example, Oksana from the story by N.V. Gogol’s “The Night Before Christmas” issues an invoice to the blacksmith Vakula - bring the slippers that the queen wears, then I will marry you, i.e. Oksana does not rightfully want to take the royal place - she demands from Vakula a royal standard of living for herself, she feels like a victim of fate that she is not a queen. Of course, all this can be written off as empty coquetry, but the application itself contains a claim. The victim presented an invoice and hopes for payment. And people pay false bills. To pay the bill for Oksana the victim, the blacksmith contacted the devil himself - which is generally beyond the pale for a baptized person. The “victims” make up a large group: boorishly behaving, beggars, complainers, conflicted individuals. Look - I'm a victim and you owe me everything. The main thing is to find the right to something. In real life, such victims collect all the cold that fell on them in the hospital, at school, in the store, just on the street (“No one looks at me, and I’m a young woman!”), This cold is far-fetched, but the victim exposes it to everyone around him for payment, especially those close to him suffer. The victim was well described (its absolutely extreme character) by F.M. Dostoevsky in the image of Rodion Raskolnikov. He, like any victim, is ALWAYS SEEKING SOME RIGHT. The killer considered himself a victim of the world and 2 women paid for it with their lives, except for Sonechka, who followed him to hard labor. He invented a right for himself - “Am I a trembling creature or do I have the right” - translated - I have the right to take other people’s lives, because I was not given the right from birth to be Napoleon, i.e. to rule the world of people. In Dostoevsky’s novels “Demons” and “The Brothers Karamazov”, such “victims” are created that confuse people so much that they themselves begin to carry out their criminal plans. But no one likes victims, because they cannot be trusted. And the victim is quickly left alone. There is another danger: a person, having entered into the role and believing that he is really a victim, can get psychosomatic diseases. https://www.b17.ru/article/384188/Dear reader! Let's exchange opinions on this matter. Contact me for help not only if you want to solve your problem, but also if you want a higher quality of your life, to achieve greater success in all areas of life. Appointment only SMS +79119887123, WhatsApp.