Yes, exactly, burst! And life is hard for those who are torn apart. It is we, women, who think that “he has settled well,” and we can quite safely say that at home everything is for him, and his mistress is always happy for him. But no, everything is not at all so beautiful and simple, because a man is constantly on the verge of a breakdown (neurosis), in a state of constant control, because, having received a portion of warmth in one place, he runs to another place for a portion of affection and fairy tales, then looks for his a portion of love. And such a run, or relay race, turns into a constant search for one’s full portion. It’s like a torn lunch - in one place he took a spoon for borscht, in another place he eats spaghetti with the same spoon, he seems full, but it’s uncomfortable. There is no feeling of satisfaction and peace. The soul demands one thing, the body another, and the mind (in order not to experience feelings of guilt and dissatisfaction) is engaged in rationalization or intellectualization. And as a result, we are familiar with a collection of tales, anecdotes and various stories. Perhaps for some this is not a problem, and becomes a way of life, to which they subsequently become accustomed. Getting used to living in a state of fragmentation, an endless relay race with the philosophical worldview “there is no peace in our lives” or “we only dream of peace.” So, who are these mysterious men? What do they really need? Let's turn our attention to physiology, namely to the male hormone - testosterone (participates in the development of male genital organs, secondary sexual characteristics; regulates spermatogenesis and sexual behavior). Accordingly, what characteristics can be given to a man: wiry, endurance, pressure. And all this is expressed in aggressiveness and dominance; almost all male fantasies are associated with conquest. A man’s personality is externally oriented; battles, obstacles, pressure to overcome obstacles and MANDATORY external success are needed. They are interested in quality and quantity (i.e. I want more), and he will be proud of his catch. They love superiority, open power, and also bragging. They are straightforward, strong-minded, also honest, open, fierce and always pushing forward. Their main characteristics are strength, pressure, competition, overcoming and victory. They love to show off their conquests and victories. The most important topic of their conversations is their trophies and achievements (their eternal game (excuse the slang) so-called membership), i.e. who has a bigger car, house, salary, or who drank more, who has a cooler watch, oh how they love status toys. Remember the joke about fishermen - I caught a fish like this! And here I am, and it’s just an eye! Thus, the psychology of a man can be compared with the behavior of a sperm - wiry, nimble, strong, competitive and competitive, massive (men feel good in large male teams, more rivals - more interest and excitement), and one of its most important features is constantly in move. Imagine what will happen to the sperm if it stops? Speed ​​and movement are their motto! As a woman, I was always surprised by the fact that when standing at a traffic light, cars rush towards the next traffic light. For what? When is it okay to crawl slowly? I never understood the meaning of these sprint races, and that’s normal (I didn’t understand, and I still don’t understand), because... sprinting is a men's way of life, their philosophy and value, unlike us women (we are their opposite). And now, let’s expand our imagination, imagine whether one sperm can fertilize two eggs? No, he can not. But an egg can accept two sperm at the same time, but I’m getting off topic. If we consider the sperm as an analogue of male behavior, then we understand that it is very difficult for a man to fully live on two fronts, this is not typical for his psychology (and don’t throw stones at me, dear women, I understand that reality shows us the opposite, They live on two/three/four fronts, they have mistresses, and sometimes more than one). And in the end,.