You have been married to your wife for 20 years. He didn’t drink, didn’t smoke, and really didn’t give flowers. You have 4 children. And everything was fine with you. The wife takes care of the family, takes care of the house, takes the children to doctor’s clubs, goes to kindergarten for matinees, does homework with the children. And you are that stone wall behind which millions of women dream of hiding. True, you have one peculiarity. Your job is shift work. You go to another city to work for six months. And the wife copes with the children herself all this time. How are you? You regularly send her money. You know that your family does not need anything. And there is nothing to suspect you of. You are an exemplary family man. You don’t have other women on the side, you don’t cheat on your wife. As the years went by, you became more and more confident on your feet, you always have money. And you decided it was time to grow. I bought a three-room apartment in St. Petersburg. He made repairs, furnished it and moved his family there. He did everything and left again to earn money. So you lived and did not grieve. Once your dear wife asked you to sign over the apartment to herself so that she would be the sole owner. You didn't skimp on gifts for your wife. The wife wanted a coat and a diamond ring - here you go, please! If you want an apartment, you’re welcome! And then one day, after a long business trip, you call your wife and say that you’re going home and will be there on Friday evening. And she answered you: “No one is waiting for you here!” There was a long pause in your mind... Don’t understand?! For no apparent reason, my wife decided to file for divorce. You suspected something was wrong. We lived in perfect harmony for 20 years, and now you have a divorce! You hired a detective to watch and report on your wife. He did his job properly, and after 2 weeks you had a full report with photos of where and with whom your wife spends time. Your suspicions were justified - your wife has a lover! But you don’t dare, you can’t take it with your bare hands. I came to St. Petersburg, found a lover, met with him, had a heart-to-heart talk. I found out your lover’s plans for your wife, asked if he was ready to raise your four children, to be a support and example for them. After this conversation, the lover was blown away by the wind. The competitor was removed. The road is clear. And so you thought, how can you return to your wife and children now? The children are happy to see you. You are their favorite folder. But the wife is hostile! I don't want to see you! A scam, period! You started going to different psychologists to find out the opinions of others. How to deal with such a situation, how to save the family? I started studying literature on relationships. And I realized a lot about myself. I saw that all 20 years of marriage were not so ideal. You realized what mistakes you made. You learned a lot about women and their needs. That financial stability, although it is the support of the family, is far from the only one. That there are 5 love languages. And every person perceives love in their own way. For one, love is to spend time with you. For another - to have physical contact, gentle hugs, holding hands. For another - so that words of love are often whispered in your ear. In general, the family turned out to be a big mosaic. And you invested in only one thing - finances. And over these 20 years, your wife has yearned for a man’s shoulder, who would be there, appreciate her, speak sweet words, show signs of attention. If you want to understand your situation, describe your case to me on WhatsApp +7 993 612 86 25, and we will arrange an online meeting.