Can you call yourself a happy Woman? Not a happy person, but a woman. In the age of women's emancipation, relations between the sexes are increasingly strained. The number of single women and women who have not only never married, but also never lived with any man, is increasing. While conducting personal training, I often hear women complaining that their relationships with men are not working out the way they would like. Here is a small list of problems that modern women talk about: “I don’t know how to be a Woman...” “I can’t find a man who would like me...” “Nobody loves me...” “I’m tired of being the “man” in my family. "and make money for everyone..." "I don't understand why I need a man in the house if I can do everything myself..." "In my entire life, not a single man asked me to marry..." "Men only need my body, but not I myself..." "I want to be on an equal footing with a man, and not obey him...” “All men are “goats”! Is it possible to take them into account?” “You show me a worthy man, and then I will be happy to give him leadership in our relationship...” “I can’t trust men...” “I don’t understand what men need! I care so much about them, but they still leave me…” “Why on earth would I remain silent if I earn more than my husband!” All of the above statements indicate that it is very difficult for women to understand and accept men. You've probably heard at least once that men “love” feminine women. Or at least that's what they say. What is femininity? What's behind this word? The dictionary gives the following definition of femininity: “Femininity characterizes the characteristics of a woman’s mental structure and emotional sphere, her external attractiveness to men.” Otherwise, there is an internal and external difference from men. Every person, both man and woman, puts something of their own into this concept. So what is it really? What makes a woman a Woman? Special behavior? Any external data? State of mind? Something inexplicable and elusive? How do you understand which direction to move in order to get into this mysterious state of “Femininity”? There is another problem in this regard - men themselves do not know what they want to “see” in the woman who is next to them. Talking with different women, I noticed that many women have shifted the emphasis in their understanding of Femininity, namely: from internal qualities to external manifestations. In other words, taking care of her appearance, a woman believes that this is Femininity. This shift in emphasis affects how women build their relationships with men. Every woman wants to be desired and loved, and all her efforts in life are aimed precisely at this. But somehow it turns out that for some it comes out easily and simply - they are always surrounded by fans, they are loved, they are wanted......, while for others, both pretty and smart, their personal lives somehow don’t work out. You probably know that in each of us there live two principles - male and female. It turns out that the “male part” is much more familiar to modern women and time and effort are spent on its development, while the “female part” receives attention mainly only from the outside - appearance, figure, clothes, cosmetics. Deep Femininity, which is so highly valued by men, remains “behind the scenes”, since no one initiates first the girl, and then the girl, into its mysteries and secrets. Many girls grow up in single-parent families, without fathers, without the opportunity to form an adequate model of relationships between a man and a woman, to learn how conflict situations between them are resolved, and most importantly, how love is expressed. Social roles in society are so shifted that it is difficult to understand what it means to be a Woman in a man’s world, how to “correctly” build a harmonious relationship with a man. Some women jokingly (or not jokingly) call themselves “a man in a skirt.” Or they simply say: “I know that I am more masculine than feminine.” In fact.