We are used to discussing abuse in the context that it is a man. Yes, there are 4 times more of them. All studies give approximately the same numbers: 80% are men, but 20% are women. They are the same as men. They will ruin anyone's life. Cold-blooded and merciless. Everything is the same with them as with men of this type. It is not at all necessary that this is a woman with a narcissistic or other disorder; elementary emotional promiscuity can have an effect. Why is it more difficult for men in such a situation? He won't go to a psychologist. Don't sing - let's go! Stereotypes about weakness and all that... Friends also tease: “Don’t be a wuss! Rein in!”, but the man knows that any touch without malicious intent will be accompanied by shouts of “stabbed!” and picture calls to the police. Or not picturesque - to a brother, matchmaker, etc. Why can't a man sometimes cope with such a situation? And all for the same reason. He looks at what is happening adequately and expects the same from his partner and does not understand that his woman is not capable of this. She is cold with him, cold with children, she has no friends, she does not communicate with relatives, she is not honest, two-faced, capable manipulate and use people 24/7. It's hard with her. It's not warm with her. If men did not suffer in silence, but solved their problems professionally, then there would be no sites like “anti-woman”, “anti-woman”, etc. By the way, the same thing happens in same-sex relationships. I had to counsel such couples as well. All the same. “Why is she doing this to me? After all, I’m not to blame for anything! She didn’t love me, so it turns out?” Guys, girls and boys, NOT EVERYONE IS CAPABLE OF LOVE! Not everyone is able to understand, empathize, feel someone else’s pain, or spend resources on a loved one. This is very difficult to come to terms with and accept. But imagine: you admit that someone is stupider or smarter than you? Or, someone understands yoga, but you can only change position on command and there is no buzz? Or someone understands painting and is able to read essays by art critics for hours, but you don’t. So it is with love. Not everyone can love, so some only pretend to love for their own purposes. Narcissists, for example...You are simply unlucky in this relationship. There are several billion people on the planet, so is it really possible to judge everyone else by one bad experience? Yes, now is the era of narcissism, but there are more healthy people. We also need unhealthy people so that we can compare and not miss our one and only. Peace and love to everyone.