At a time when comprehension and awareness comes in the transformation of a personal life scenario, changing it for the better and productive, it is necessary to take into account its features and symptoms: 1. A person throughout his life is in different social roles and in each of his spheres a different scenario can be realized. For example, a middle-aged man succeeds at work - he grows up the career ladder, has excellent earnings, but in the end he burns out emotionally and professionally. He becomes seriously ill and it is at this moment that he realizes that all the gratitude from the management was only for his workaholism and working for three people. And in the family at the same time he realizes that his wife, it turns out, loved not him, but the conditions that he created for her. This is an example of a No Joy script.2. A person is able to independently change his scenario, provided that he wants and is included in its development. This aspect is based on an important fact - absolutely everything in our lives is mobile and changeable, and the cement and foundation are only in our head in the form of resistance or fears. Some people say, when asked to change, “I can’t,” but this is the position of a small child, for whom other people decide how to live, who to be with and what to want. And you just have to wish and begin to act for your own benefit, despite the difficulties encountered, while introducing sincere gratitude as a daily ritual, then support for achievements will appear. This is the only way the scenario “Crazy” becomes “With the Mind”, “Without Feelings” - “With Feelings”, “Without Love” - “With Love”, “Without Joy” - “With Joy”. Each has its own bouquet and, as a result, its own therapy. 3. A person broadcasts “script signals” to the world, according to E. Bern’s interpretation. As a result, those around him can unconsciously consider the person’s inner world and build their interaction taking into account what is felt. For example, a tense, insecure person gives signals in the form of sitting in a corner, covering himself with bangs, walking hunched over, holding his arms crossed on his chest in front of him, while on the contrary, a vain person looks from above and constantly makes fun of others. A nervous person during a meeting presses the handle, opening or closing the rod, and in overexertion breaks it without even noticing. As a result, it is useless to hold a grudge against others if there is no work on yourself, and the reactions are annoying. You need to look at your signals from the outside and start correcting them. To be continued. Your psychologist, Katerina Agafonova