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Yes, of course there is, ask the millions of people who have gone through it. Another thing is that at first this life will definitely be unusual and quite possibly quite difficult. The following simple tips will help you get through the most difficult period and direct your new life in the right direction: Start working on your self-esteem. Even if you were not the initiator of the divorce, in your head You may probably have thoughts about your own insolvency and unworthiness, since the relationship could not be saved. Drive these thoughts away, praise yourself, allow yourself to start a new life without excessive reflection and soul-searching. Focus on what brings you pleasure. It is possible that the last years of your marriage were a time when you were not living your life. And in general they rather survived than lived. Now that's it, the marriage is over and it's time to spend your time on what you really like. Ask for help if you feel that you really need it. The fact that you no longer have support in the form of a partner is not a reason to pretend to be a superhero. If you feel like you can't cope, tell your loved ones about it. Do not hesitate to contact a psychologist, after all. Don't save too much. Close your wedding photos already and stop crying when you look at them. And throw out unnecessary thoughts too, stop asking mutual friends and finding out how your ex is doing. All this is the most dangerous and large abyss into which you can drag yourself, if not forever, then for many years. It’s not enough to separate physically, you need to do it on a psychological level too. Give yourself time. That is, learn to live in the proposed circumstances. There is no such effort that you could make and remove your entire family life from your memory in one day. Accept that certain moments will have to be lived and worked through. However, I strongly recommend not to wait or endure anything, in the sense that you should not sit and suffer, but take an active position in the matter of building your own life and start by allow yourself to live in joy.