Antonyms for the word “bore” in the dictionary include the following words: clown, joker, clown, merry fellow, because the first synonym is the word “boredom.” A bore is someone who is boring. But a boring person, devoid of interest in life, does not interfere with those around him, does not irritate them, does not annoy them. You can make a boring person laugh, and his boredom will disappear, he will become cheerful. But a bore is not passive, he constantly influences those around him, is dissatisfied with everything and everyone, makes claims to people, causing irritation in them. The bore is active in the search for a victim, or rather, everyone who catches his eye becomes his victims, and it doesn’t matter who, a close person or a random passer-by. The reason for intolerance and dissatisfaction with others lies in the bore’s internal dissatisfaction. Such a person is dissatisfied with himself, but instead of looking for the reason in himself, he tries to find it in those who are nearby. The one who is nearby will always not be what he should be, will do everything wrong, even if he does nothing and remains silent. A bore will always need someone who should be the cause of his irritation in order to justify his words and actions to constantly find confirmation of one’s confidence in the imperfection of the world and one’s own rightness. Conviction in one’s own infallibility, confidence in one’s absolute rightness is the quality of a person who has limited himself to certain rules and views at the level of the mind. His mind constantly compares, analyzes, and draws conclusions about what is wrong. Enormous energy is spent on the work of the mind and, in order to replenish it, the bore tries to get it from others. That's why he constantly needs someone else, whom the bore evokes emotions and feeds off of him. The bore's internal space is filled with unchanging patterns and schemes that are automatically applied in any situation to everyone, without exception, around the people. There is no free space in him to perceive new things, so it is impossible to dissuade a bore from anything. He is not able to perceive new things, therefore he is not able to grow. Everything that is not able to grow degrades, because energy is not static and is always in motion, if not in the direction of growth, then vice versa. Everyone who is not growing spreads around themselves rough vibrations of boredom, melancholy, sadness, depression, sadness, causing the same painful feelings in those around them. This is a good test. If you feel uncomfortable around a person and your mood deteriorates, an incomprehensible anxiety or irritation arises, then his rough vibrations are affecting you. If at the same time a person says that you are not like that, imposing his own pattern of actions and trying to induce a feeling of guilt, then he is a destroyer. The bore in everyone tries to create a feeling of guilt, and guilt is destructive. The one who creates a feeling of guilt in another is an executioner, and the one who has a feeling of guilt is a victim. The executioner has power over the victim. Sacrifice is dependence, slavery. A slave is unable to grow and develop. Growth is only possible in freedom. Beware of bores. If you don’t know how to deal with them, it’s best to exclude them from your life. #newpsychologist Read more than 280 articles about psychology and more on my website: http://noviypsiholog.ru/Sign up for an online consultation with me on the website: http:/ /olgalysenkova.ru/