From the author: Sometimes we lack one small effort, a small step forward, support. You can! Together we can handle it! When we safely and wisely dispose of our grievances, fears, guilt and shame for what we have done and not done, disappointments and complaints, then enough energy is released to move towards what we want, to change our lives for the better, for quality relationships with loved ones , career, health, money. “Where can I get the strength to become happy, rich, healthy?” The answer is on the surface: “Recover your energy from past events, where you are “stuck in thoughts” and form a new relationship experience. What prevents this? Fear change. There is an experience of “suffering” that has taken root, merged with you, has become a part of you. There is an experience of suffering, but there is no experience of a happy life, that’s why it’s scary to change something. Life “for company.” False “service” to parents, to unborn brothers and sisters, ancestors: “You were not happy, you died, were not born, you suffered! I love you and will not be happy for your company." "Evil" willpower. Convincing ourselves that there is no willpower, we are mistaken. There is! More about this in the article "Self-deception and willpower." Strength is action, not talk and dreams. How often do you feel sorry for yourself: “Everything is pointless, nothing will work out, fate/karma is like this, I was born to the wrong parents, in the wrong country, at the wrong time, I live in a city, a village, a house, on the street , where it is impossible to be happy/healthy/rich, due to the fact that.... "Does it hurt? Yes! Yes! Yes! It hurts very much! It is unbearably painful to reassure yourself for inaction and the understanding that tomorrow and the day after tomorrow and the after-after tomorrow everything will be “as always.” And life, like a handful of sand, slips through your fingers. Try to feel sorry for yourself so much, very, very much, very, very, very much, that you want to say: “Enough!!!!!!” will you succeed? I invite you to check it out! Try it in small steps, we will go safely together! Are there any “pioneers?” This is what they say: I began to feel more alive; .... I realized that I need to TRUST myself, give myself the opportunity to be myself, appreciate everything that the soul gives birth to - thoughts, drawings, ideas; ....internal state - a return to one’s life roots!; ....you helped open another door for me; .... I received answers to the questions that tormented me. The disparate links formed into a single chain and a holistic understanding emerged; ....My dream has come true! ...the fear of presenting yourself to the world disappears! ...Your trainings really turned my life around, I believed in myself so much that I can act independently and I understand that I deserve the best and can manage my life myself. Articles for every taste. Subscribe and read. My books in electronic and printed versions. Irina Vasilakiy, art, gestalt therapist, constellation specialist, special child psychologist, defectologist +7 916 536 536 2 WhatsApp, Skype irino4kavas