How far is it from your dream life? It’s up to you to decide. How many conditions need to be met before you can say “Now I’m happy”? Look at the list of conditions: how old is it before your eyes? How many points have been fulfilled? And have you become happier, or instead of happiness, only new points of conditions for happiness have been added? There are several simple truths: 1. You will only get the job/husband/wife/home of your dreams when you start feeling at peace with the people you are with. Where you are now. I knew from the age of 7 that Moscow was not my place. And I lived there or next to her until I was 33. And only after finding a state of harmony within myself did I move on the map. In short. If you are not happy with your life, if you want something different, first start being content with what you have right now. Start living as if you are already happy. I understand, it sounds crazy. But that's the only way. Here's how to perform this trick with your ears? Tip one: There is a wonderful phrase “What if.” What if you already had your dream job? How would you feel? Close your eyes and imagine. Notice your bodily sensations. Images. Metaphors that came. Remember them. And try throughout the day to repeat these sensations in your body, remember the pictures that came, catch similar images with your gaze. And train. Train this state. It's all about the state. It trains like a muscle. Every day. The second tip is banal. Give thanks. Thank the people around you, things. Every day, after waking up, or before going to bed - five thanks. And for that I thank you. You can write, you can speak. If you do it from the bottom of your heart, you won’t recognize yourself in a week! I don’t recognize myself) I never recommend anything that I haven’t tried on myself and on clients. I always include this point in the training to achieve a dream as a daily practice. Guys, this must be like brushing your teeth! If you want to achieve the desired effect, never forget about gratitude. Tip three: confidence in yourself and in your right to get what you want. You deserve this by birthright. Respect yourself and your dreams. Friends! Come to me for a consultation to effectively resolve your queries! I am an experienced psychologist who works efficiently and effectively with adults. Any queries except addictions and psychiatry.