Have you ever wondered why some people come into our lives, they are easy, simple and understandable, they can fill, elevate, while others simply awaken the demon in us, throw us out of balance and after interacting with we become wild with them or, on the contrary, fall into wild despair and anxiety. Why is this? It’s like foods that are suitable for us, but there are those that are contraindicated for us... it seems so, but no, not really... We’re talking about the poison that rises precisely in RELATIONSHIP with this or that person. What is DEFORMATION? And how to work with it? The term “deformation” literally means a change in shape. When we are in deformation, life feels like we are running out of time. For such a person, relationships in which there is no development resemble a vicious circle. And what’s most interesting is that a person cannot leave this relationship. Work built on deformation will take a lot of strength and energy. It feels like you are working at 200%, but your productivity is actually 20%. And stress and anxiety will increase. Many even consider these conditions to be the norm, subsuming their own or imposed philosophy under them. A deformed personality cannot enjoy life and be open to opportunities. It’s as if her faucet is clogged and the entire flow of energy is trapped inside and goes out. Her appearance also changes. The facial muscles become tense and spasmodic. The neck shortens and a double chin appears. Lymphatic drainage in the lower part of the body is disrupted. How to remove personality deformation? First, let's figure it out... Pure relationships - they are built on trust in yourself, in the world and in people, on inner freedom. The world is not perfect, people are not perfect. but whatever, we ourselves are far from perfect. But we manage to place high demands on everything except ourselves. And how wonderful relationships can be. Just imagine a relationship in which no one controls, criticizes, enjoys the meeting, and spends time with pleasure. There is no place for toxins. But quite often we find ourselves in toxic relationships. Where there are unjustified expectations, jealousy, increased demands. That is, in such relationships there is poison, of varying degrees of harmfulness. And usually it’s not possible to leave these relationships either, because there’s a mortgage, a house, children, a dog, business, everyday life, etc. These fears of being left without the illusion of pleasure are paralyzing. And we live so good and correct, we don’t see ourselves, but our partner got caught defective. And with other people everything is smooth and harmonious, but here it’s as if the field is poisoned and when you get into it, all the DEFORMATION comes out of you. Hystericality, rudeness, vulgarity, desire to rise up, to prick. These relationships take a lot of strength and energy. The feeling that you are carrying an unbearable burden. And you know, this relationship is BEAUTIFUL. Without such a panoramic mirror, we would not see our “deformed face”, all the imperfections. In this magnifying glass we see our own shortcomings. It is under this magnifying glass that all the poison rises. And now the question: Without this PARTNER, would you see your qualities? Thank these people, they are your teachers. And only thanks to them we can quickly develop and grow. The point is that when we blame, it only gets worse for us. But when we thank, everything becomes different. These are completely different vibrations. Development will occur on these vibrations. 🔍And this relationship is also very similar to training. The coach will push, hurt, add time and weight. And in the end this will lead to a RESULT. The ice will finally break and you can reach a new level💪