Women who are unlucky in love. What are they like? I want to help women, both young and with experience in family life, who seem to do everything for their loved ones, but for some reason are unhappy. In my practice as a psychologist, women who at first glance are completely different and outwardly have approached me and are approaching me , both by age and social status. They even answered the question: “What did you come to me with?” - they answer completely differently. But after a few minutes of conversation, the words usually follow: “I’m unlucky in love. I meet the wrong men (alcoholics, married, irresponsible, gamblers, parasites, aggressors, etc.). Dear women, why does it happen that you are so beautiful, talented and infinitely devoted, creating relationships, and even families with “ bad guys"? They often say about such women: “She is unlucky.” During the conversation, we rewind this “bad luck” to early childhood, and sometimes to intrauterine development and the moment of birth. Childhood decides a lot in our destiny. A woman’s experiences from childhood have a strong influence on her relationship with a man in youth and adulthood. So, most often these are girls who lacked parental love in childhood. They did not receive enough attention, affection, or approval. They were criticized, scolded, and even beaten. As adults, they take other people's opinions too closely. They feel shame for any reason. They often don’t know how to say “no.” The result is low self-esteem and self-dislike. I had clients who were simply left to fend for themselves by adults and had to survive on their own. This traumatizes the psyche and makes such a woman a “fighter,” often with those closest to her. Ask yourself: what did your mom and dad say to you when they praised you? Second question: when did they disapprove of me? Write your answers in two columns. If there are more words of praise, then you are lucky with your parental family. But remember, if your parents are far from being models of loving people, then you shouldn’t blame them, they just failed to heal their “childhood wounds.” It is important to understand what happened to you in your childhood, who influenced you and how, and try to change yourself , acquire those skills that will help you build healthy relationships with people in the future. Start each day by saying, “Today I will treat myself with love.” Love increases a woman's self-esteem and self-esteem, as well as her partner. Being happy in love is so nice!