Recently I was thinking about how multifaceted the relationship between a man and a woman is, and at the same time, they are very similar in different couples. My daughter is now a 1st year student at the Faculty of Journalism, a very interesting person, very wise, despite her 18 years, a few days ago she sent me an article by email, I couldn’t resist asking her permission to post the article on the site. Angelina agreed. For me, this briefly and succinctly reflects everything that really is the main problem in gender relations. Judge for yourself. Life, what is it? Minutes spent in happiness? Or moments of sadness? Or maybe both combined together? We all often ask this question... But in fact, life is a play, directed by God himself. For some it is a tragedy, for others it is a drama, for others it is a comedy... But which of them is truly happy in various genres of production? Taking part in the play, everyone chooses their role. People love roles, masks, thereby they believe that they are hiding their soul, not wanting anyone to recognize it.. Has anyone ever been interested in the question, what is a “role”? “A role is, in a broad sense, a description of a limited set of actions performed by someone or something within a certain process,” this is the definition of this word given by Wikipedia. It turns out that we do not choose our role ourselves... and we do not act independently... God simply plays with us, as in a puppet theater. I would like to dwell on the roles of men and women in relationships. We always reproach our significant other for not being sincere towards you, for playing with you, but the roles are given for this purpose, so that she can be played. The problem of modern society is not that there is no sincerity and people have forgotten how to play plays, but that they have changed roles. It's hard to play a role that's not yours, isn't it? No man can play the true behavior of a woman and vice versa. But this is exactly what is happening now. Women have remained the same as many centuries ago... the demands have not changed, they correspond to modern life, and men have not degraded, they just played along with women. The problem is that everyone is out of place. We just need to return what was, what the classics wrote about. After all, love was and is.. Women just stop thinking that she should be on the same level as a man. I am not saying that a woman should stop developing, but she should learn, thanks to her feminine cunning, to direct her chosen one in the “channel” that she herself would like; men love to do what his fiancée approves of, this stimulates them for development. Consequently, a man must remember that a woman is thin and fragile, and she cannot take the first steps by nature. “The director,” guiding us, leaves us the right to choose and everyone chooses how much he will “improvise in the production” or “ go according to script».