Envious friends should not be listened to. Everyone knows about this, but go and figure out where there is envy and where there is friendship. She was always let down by uncertainty, gentleness and some kind of childish gullibility. If your friends share something, advise you, it means it’s not without reason, it means you need to listen. I listened and listened until I realized that I had been alone for so many years. Always alone. They say that you don’t need to look for your man, he will find you. Maybe so. And in her life there were men who appeared out of nowhere. But only then did they disappear into nowhere. Why? I thought about it and began to understand that there was always advice from my girlfriends, which I followed. He’s kind of silent, you can’t talk to him. Don't you get bored when you're alone? And before that, everything seemed to be fine, we started dating, but then suddenly it became really boring and not interesting. Look, other guys have such cheerful, active guys, but with this everything is somehow clear, grey, even sad. So excuse me, dear, we’ll go on different roads. He’ll make money from you, won’t he? Where is he wiping your pants? Which design office? People are engaged in business, and yours draws abstruse pictures that no one needs! Blueprints? What difference does it make if there is no money? Everyone sees how you live! You can’t even go abroad! How did they live? Yes, modestly. By the way, we were planning to go to the sea, but somehow it didn’t save up. And engineers have always been underpaid. Not everyone can spin. Not everyone? If he doesn’t earn money, it means he doesn’t love him! Neither you nor the child! How are you going to live? And then you lost your temper there, threw a frying pan, and on holiday you went to see your mother and daughter, and she and her friends went to a club. You only live once! And obviously not to be together now. Sorry. It’s good that we didn’t have to share the apartment. He moved into a rented apartment, and it seemed like he had another one right away. Well, let them live if they want. We will go our own way. The main thing is to help the child. But what kind of help is he? The girls were right when they said that something needs to be changed. I changed it... and I found myself alone again. But with a child, loneliness is not so acute. Cares, kindergarten, school. Of course, there were men too, but again some were not like that. Why not like that? Because from the outside, it’s clearer, and if friends are talking, then they probably know what they’re talking about. And somehow ten years flew by unnoticed. And then it turns out that one friend has a family, children, and her husband drinks, but is not a drunkard. He just drinks, sometimes, but everything is fine, who doesn’t drink now? And the other one also has a husband, and doesn’t hang around anywhere, works in the subway, and everything is fine with them, the eldest is already entering university - the children need to study, since the parents are without a “tower” “And another old friend, they don’t live like that at all. How long do they live like this? Yes, probably fifteen years: we need to remember how they met, it’s already forgotten. But they live, and always together, without a wedding, without rings. Although no, he still gave her the ring. But without a wedding, but still together. And they live without quarreling. And then she realizes that her daughter is on the phone all day long, and she herself is alone. She worried, chose, demanded, listened to advice. But you just had to live your own life. And it seems that it’s not too late to start. Moreover, she didn’t delete the number, and he sent the last SMS just recently. Happy birthday. This means she’s not offended, she remembers... It’s such a complex and unpredictable woman’s happiness. Read my useful articles: “Unrequited love. Where only you are” “Why do they leave me or who is to blame for women’s tears?” “Don’t leave me! Let’s continue the topic. love addiction""How to cope with love addiction to a person and not suffer?"You can read other articles by the author hereIf you are facing problems in relationships, sign up for a consultation via WhatsApp, Viber Telegram using the contacts specified in the questionnaire or via the link through the website here ➡️. I will be happy to help you. 🌹With respect and care for you, Marina Kudrina Sign up for a consultation here