Greetings, Alexey Karev is with you. Our life is filled and saturated with examples of how to and how not to live. They are everywhere. I want to share a story that I witnessed. I’m riding on a bus. A girl is sitting across the aisle from me and talking on the phone, apparently with a friend. This is what I heard: “Zhenya is already annoying me... He hasn’t spent the night for three days, and when I told him that I don’t like it, he called me a prostitute and replied that I’m annoying him and it’s time for him to look for a new normal woman... (here, apparently , on the other side of the line they ask “why do you need this?”)... no, I don’t want to be alone for the New Year!.. The holidays will pass, and I’ll leave him, and in general, I met a guy here, well, how did I meet... He suited me. Handsome, blond with blue eyes, though his name is the same as my “Zhenya” and in general they are somehow similar...”... At that time I went out... Dear ladies, how do you like this state of affairs? It seems to me that this happens often when people don’t see the difference between “being lonely” and “being alone in a room”... Isn’t it really better to be with a person who insults, humiliates, and doesn’t respect, than to be alone a little with yourself. And the girl is pretty. Why is she behaving this way? All the reasons are drawn from childhood... And where else can the internal feeling of inferiority, the feeling of uselessness, abandonment come from... Although our fears, as a rule, have no connection with reality, our imagination leads us to God knows where. And somewhere deep down a feeling is born: “I’m not good enough to have a happy family and joyful relationships”... And since this sits deep, this glitch will be inherited. And the daughter will come to her mother and say “Mom, my husband beats me,” and the mother will answer: “That means he loves me, be patient”... And so from generation to generation. It's sad, isn't it? What can you do to change your life? First of all, realize that you are worthy, to be loved and respected, joyful and filled with energy. After all, it is then that you will literally “radiate” with energy, like from a nuclear reactor. Men feel this, it energizes them, they want to be with such a woman, even if just to stand. A very powerful means of attracting strong, smart and effective men who will definitely make your life happy. You just need to allow yourself happiness. Sincerely, Alexey Karev. http://www.irk-psiholog.ru