Question from reader “Tsvetana, what are destructive programs? How do they work? And how can we understand whether they exist or not?” The question is voluminous and multidimensional. Perhaps I will answer it again and again, but now I want to cover the topic of how programs work in relation to addictions and attachments. I have a firm belief that everything in our lives serves something, has its own benefits and prospects. Question in what exactly. Some things serve development, some serve degradation and stagnation. If you develop in something, constructive programs work. If you have a stupor, stagnation and there is a feeling that everything is steadily going down, then destruction programs have turned on. A clear indicator of an actively working destructive person is a tendency to dependencies and attachments. Attachment to a person. This may be a feeling of an irresistible desire for complete possession, meeting, tactile or emotional contact. The need for a person is like air or water. Deep sadness or even panic at the mere thought of the end of the relationship. Perhaps, on the contrary, it is a strong desire to end the relationship. When you don’t have the strength to be close to a person, but there is something above the moral and physical strength to complete it. Sometimes this is hatred of yourself and the person who “holds” you in this connection. Such attachments can be obvious and latent. For example, a person may not be aware of a strong connection with his mother and may not understand that his life is built on the consequences of this connection. You can live and not understand why there is no money, children, interesting work, or the woman you love, and at the same time unconsciously do everything to ensure that this never appears, because this threatens to break the existing connection. A person is protected from this break by programs formed under the influence of this connections. Dependence and attachment can be shown to parents, children, wives, lovers, friends and even to one of the colleagues. The same principle applies to attachments to work, money, things, circumstances, difficult life situations. How do you understand that you have addictions, attachments and programs working in this direction? In fact, this can manifest itself in any area of ​​life: Staying in toxic destructive relationships. Lack of meaning in life and loss of interest in it. Inability to get out of a long-term difficult life situation. Problems with money, work. Alcohol, drug, and gambling addictions are also realized due to the action of programs, including self-destruction and self-destruction. Danger in the fact that a person may think that he has not found himself or simply does not know what to do. An illusion of inaction is created, but in fact, at this moment the person is taking active actions in the direction opposite to his desires. He behaves in relationships in such a way that they end quickly. He does everything possible to feel worthless, helpless, hopeless. Then fears come into play. Fear: loss, failure, shame, illness or even death. With such a picture, a powerful outflow of energy occurs. The person feels completely de-energized. In a state of emotional and physical powerlessness, it is extremely difficult to free yourself from attachments and complete programs. How this happens during my client work: We determine what worries us most at the moment; We find the key attachment/dependence and the benefits from it; We identify the main benefits, we understand what it serves ;We end the attachment and all situations associated with it; We “download into the subconscious” new, useful programs and feelings necessary to realize what you want; We carry out the final harmonization of a person and give recommendations for the formation and consolidation of new experiences. The effectiveness of working with attachments is very high. After such sessions, clients: Pay off debts; Lose dependence on parents; End or transform painful relationships; Get out of difficult life situations; Find a new job or reach a higher level