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Let's imagine the picture that you came to the dining room, where you were given only one set of dishes. You eat it. You may or may not like what you ate. It's simple, right? Now let's imagine that you come to the dining room, where there is a large assortment. And you need to make a CHOICE. You immediately reject some dishes because you don’t eat them at all. Then you start to take a closer look and sweep away what you don’t like outwardly. As a result, you are left with several options that you like. You won’t be able to take it all, because it’s impossible to eat it all at once. And then the torment of choice begins - you will have to choose something, and refuse something. Let's look at several situations. 1) A girl comes for a manicure, the master only does nail care and does not cover it at all. Everything is simple here - there is no choice. 2) Let's get the master one bottle of varnish. Here the choice already appears. Of course, it’s not complicated: either we paint our nails or we don’t. However, there is a choice. 3) Let’s complicate the task and add a couple more bottles of varnish to the master (in other shades different from the first and from each other). Now the girl faces a more difficult choice: should we paint it or not, and if so, what color. Here the choice is also not very difficult. I think you will agree that making a choice from white, red and black is not so difficult. 4) Let’s complicate the task even further, let the master have a huge palette of colors, where each color has at least five shades. It seems to me that in this case it is much more difficult to make a choice. And this is only about the color, but you can also choose the shape, if you really want to stay on the topic of manicure. It is important to clarify that the girl who came for a manicure does not have conditions that need to be met (only short nails, no color on the nails, only pink, only pastel shades, etc.), otherwise this is a new variation of the lack and limitation of choice. When We have a choice, and responsibility for it comes to us. Here you have to give up something. And then you still have to face the consequences of your choice, that is, bear responsibility for this choice of yours. It’s good if you like the chosen color and shape. And if not? For example, I quickly got tired of the color. I once encountered a situation where I liked a color, but it turned out that it wasn’t on me. And then you will have to do something about it: either come to terms with it and live like this until your next scheduled manicure, or run to have it redone (which means paying for the procedure again and going through the agony of choice again), or filing and painting your nails yourself. When a person is in survival mode, with nothing to choose from. He is blindfolded and his hands are tied, he is led along some path. Everything there is simple and unambiguous. Of course, the person there dreams that this will end someday, he is already tired of living like this. He would already like to choose something, but there is no choice, remember? And as soon as a person leaves this survival mode, the process of choice falls on him. Everywhere. Always. Constantly. And the more freedom and life, the more choice. And the responsibility for this choice is the trailer.