The house is built, the tree is planted, there are children, and what next? One “fine” day everything collapses. The man leaves. You can’t wrap your head around it. They lived in perfect harmony. No, there were swearing and misunderstandings, but they could hear and come to good decisions together. Because of this, they don’t abandon their family and loved ones. You reason. Probably damage, a new rotten thought comes. They drugged him, drugged him, made big promises, but he believed and fell for it. Does it mean another woman? How is she better than me? Younger, more beautiful, slimmer, richer, bolder, sexier? And then she will grow old... she won’t give as much as I gave, as much as I forgave. And the children? Is it possible to replace them with someone else? Traitor! The bitterness of resentment, anger and tears suffocates and does not allow you to breathe. I want to shout to the whole world - This is not fair! I want to tell every pillar how bad you feel and you are looking, looking, looking for good reasons, the reason and the answer to the question why? We’ve gone through so much together, is it possible to give it all up? Why did you leave? How can I continue to live? Everything is like in a cheap TV series, how could this happen to me in real life? If only someone had told me this before, I I wouldn’t believe it. - - - - - - - Crisis in marital relationships. After such breaks, they either end or move to another qualitative level. I often encounter both in psychological practice. Unfortunately, if a couple does not talk frankly , the couple breaks up, the transition to the next, deeper level of love does not occur. The partner more often follows the behavior familiar to him and, indeed, finds himself younger and braver, who ignites old feelings in him. Scenarios are possible that they then unite in the fight against the old family. Few people have the wisdom to leave everything and start their life from scratch with a new passion. After all, so much has been invested, the young couple decides and enters into battle with the old family system. This is a fatal mistake. Such a couple will not have happiness. The model of behavior and the degree of mistrust will not allow them to create a happy family union. But this is not what I wanted to write about today. But the fact that the reason for such disintegrations is not the desire of the soul to live out its development. But this is what we came to this Earth for. For both partners, divorce is a chance to become a better version of themselves. And it’s good when a family is preserved, learns to hear the needs of itself and its loved ones, when a truly deep force of love and support is created for many many years. We were taught to overcome difficulties, fight, build, create, but here’s how to live happily ever after in a strong the union was not taught. There are few clear examples. Very little. And before you divorce the person you once loved, ask yourself whether I am following the lead of my ancestral programs, where my parents divorced and I was unhappy? Am I not repeating ancestral and family patterns of behavior that lead to destruction me, my children, the person to whom I promised to love in sorrow and in joy? How else can I love this same person? How can I save and increase what I have now? Maybe I can become a clear example for my descendants when they... They will proudly tell us: “We lived happily ever after in love, so much so that we even died on the same day.” And pass this program on to their children as an inheritance. - - - - - - - - -Come and hug me The fastest way to sign up for a consultation at Whatsapp to number+8-(904)-318-50-74