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Almost every child under 3 years of age shows greed for the first time. For example, on the playground, a child does not give his toys to anyone, or when they come to take the toys, he can take his own. Many parents, when faced with this, do not understand why the child does not give or share. They often experience a feeling of embarrassment and shame. They persuade their child to give up the toy and share, to behave friendly. I would like to draw attention to what is happening at this moment with the child who is greedy. Before the age of 3, a child is just beginning to understand that toys belong to him. And therefore, he will not be happy that he has to give toys to other children, even for a while. And children at this age still do not understand time. The child will protect what is dear to him. In addition, he will feel that his loved ones are against him, and they will also scold him for not giving what is his. Let's try to imagine what your child might experience. For example, someone comes up and takes your phone or bag, car. What will you feel, think, do at this moment? You'll defend your belongings, and maybe even call the police. But it's still really important to show your child that social exchange can happen, it's more fun to make friends and play. How to do it? Praise your child and support him when he decides to exchange and let him use his toy. Even if it happens rarely. Share such gestures of generosity with other loved ones, in the presence of your baby. For example, you can tell your grandmother or father about this. Nowadays there are quite a large number of educational cartoons or books in which this topic is raised. It is easier for children to learn from such examples. For example, the book “The Little Hare Shares with Friends!” When reading a book or watching a cartoon, pay attention to this. Talk to your child about what he can take to the playground, which toys he can share and which he cannot. Similarly, you can discuss going to visit and the arrival of guests. If you expect guests to arrive, especially those the same age as your child, then ask them to take their toys. You can also warn that your child is now going through the stage of protecting what is dear to him.