What is the life of a modern woman filled with? Taking care of beauty, meeting with girlfriends, meaningless shopping to disconnect from thoughts..... routine work, searching for a man, and maybe for some, trying to build a relationship with a man who has even become family in some ways... .... Suddenly the boss suggests concentrating on work and offers an interesting project (!), which will definitely be paid decently - and now the woman is enthusiastically immersed in her work. Tired. Looking for an opportunity to rest, sighing on a friend’s shoulder; in the evening she flies on a date with a man, maybe he will be her future husband. She heard stories from seemingly “wise” women that a woman’s happiness lies in devoting her life to caring for a man, children, inspiring him, supporting him, and revealing the feminine energy in herself. She heard the story of a seemingly happy friend, who assured her that a woman’s happiness is to find a strong man, and to be weak with him, to play the role of a girl, then he will certainly want to protect you. And as a child, my mother said that a woman should keep the house clean, be modest and moderate, and obey her husband in everything. There is something dubious about this, because happiness is also associated with the realization of personal desires and aspirations. There are many thoughts, many images, many meanings that different women and men put into the word femininity. What recipe for female happiness works? What is my personal meaning of femininity? When do I feel fulfilled as a woman next to the man I love? I asked myself these questions not long ago, and my search for answers has only just begun. I am convinced that other people’s experience does not work. The image of femininity that was common during our parents' time has changed. Many of us work and enjoy it. And I'm not ready to give it up. As a ready-made recipe, I’m not sure that Vedic ideas about femininity work. It seems to me that every woman needs to create her own recipe for femininity, find her own personal meanings, and this is precisely the direct path to female happiness.