Hello. Today I received a message from a girl. Consent received."Nadezhda, good afternoon! What should I do if a man cheats on me? We've been living together for three years. I'm used to him, of course, this is a test for me. I understand that something is going wrong. I wanted to build a relationship based on joy, kindness, love, respect. And so tired. He says that he loves me, but all the time he tries to suppress me, push me aside, devalue me. He says that he is a man and will decide for himself with whom he spends the night, spends time, and other things. this "these are chicks! Regular chicks! I have nothing to do with them!" and everything returns to normal. What should I do?!" We worked with the Client and identified the nuances. 1. A girl's fear is changing habits. "You can't leave, you can't stay!" where to put a comma?2. Changing habits is scary because there are a lot of risks! I will lose a man! But this is about something else.3. Fear of loneliness, fear of rejection. Is the girl capable of being alone? What is the rationale here? The feeling of hopelessness, especially when a girl had been waiting for a relationship for a long time, forced her to change, even break her own beliefs and values. For example, the I value is replaced by default into the value (super value) WE. So what? Then a girl slides down the slide. Constant feeling of tension, self-sacrifice, lack of trust, lack of confidence in the partner.4. What pushes a girl into this relationship? Is it just the fears mentioned above? No, a lot of fears are also a huge number of limiting beliefs that prevent you from feeling the right to love, the right to relationships, the right to self-realization in these relationships, the right to realize the Mission (the search for one’s own uniqueness and self-worth).5. A “Male” man is an infantile person who is unable to control his will. Why does a child need Will? Willpower is key. The ability to say NO when tempted is admirable. Willpower is the source of cosmic capabilities and Charisma! Males use primitive approaches and explanations about “instincts,” “nature,” and other “evidence,” wanting to shift responsibility to the entire evolution of life on Earth. Like, it’s a biological process and that’s it. But in reality? The prohibition to love, to feel loved, the fear of loving... Males also love to include the victim! I must say that it is not without reason. But at the same time, being in a childish position, they cannot work on themselves, their strong-willed qualities. They can't understand why they need this? After all, they feel good during sex, but who feels bad from sex? But as for suffering, there is it! “Nobody needs me. I don’t feel happy. I’m offended by my family who didn’t give me anything.” In fact, this requires permission to love and find the source of love within yourself. Is it hard and boring? Yes. But this is a necessary thing and a truly responsible decision! If a man understands the need for changes in life, the value of trust, shared joy, spirituality in the family, then we can still talk about the future. The choice, of course, is up to the Client.5. Cheating is always about impurity. And this is what many of my clients (both men and women) think. I understand that everyone will have their own answer to the question about such a situation. It happens that this even excites someone. However, contact with the body is a sacred action. The woman says: “ I love and I give energy. A man’s connection with another woman traumatizes me, devalues ​​me, hurts me, is this what I want!? My partner is constantly cheating on me. And in place of a happy relationship there will be a neurotic, toxic relationship. How to get rid of the pain. ?How to get rid of self-distrust? How to get rid of all the restrictions that tightly surround a person who is in a state of trauma? Everything is very individual! reliable! For the rest 7000₽.https://t.me/psyxologNadin