Teacher of our “School of Relationships” Roza Markovna works in different areas of psychology, but the one closest to her, of course, is provocative. What did you think? Growing up in Odessa and not knowing provocative therapy?! But that’s not to respect yourself! But Rosa Markovna loves therapy, yes... And today, while we are recording her priceless thoughts, she is simultaneously carrying out treatment... “You, I’ll see, are a well-read girl, wearing glasses... She lost years and sight for science ... Now you teach others... What has your science given you, besides poor health? Knowledge, you say... A terrible thing is the Internet, everyone began to know everything... Here is my nephew, Fima, a great expert on the Kama Sutra. He, the Kama Sutra, has read it ten times and can teach it. A theory, of course, just a theory... He’s afraid to approach living women, but in theory he’s a great specialist! So what? I took the textbook, put it in my own words, and here is the finished lecture. Shaw? Will your psychologists beat me? Let them try, ha! Of course, their strength lies in unity, but I am a woman of the people, and the people feel in their gut that “likes” for each other can only raise self-esteem, and not the baggage of skills.... “Baggage of knowledge”? – are you correcting me??? What you read in books is not even knowledge, it is information. If you haven’t applied it in practice, and haven’t made a mistake ten times while applying it, your knowledge is worthless. What is the main thing in psychology? Experience! Otherwise, everyone who reads a lot of all kinds of psychological literature could treat themselves. I read a lot of books, and lo and behold, everything became good and even wonderful! And he stopped suffering, and became completely free, happy and uninhibited! Aha! I hung all sorts of “motivating” crap on my wall, got a dozen “likes”, and immediately felt happy. My method is “Act!” “Movement is life!”, as Freud used to say, and he is our everything! What, didn't he say that? What do you think, he lay on the couch all day long?! Or, here’s the favorite advice of your psychologists: “Negotiate”... Yeah, not “advice”, “recommendation”... Not a tomato, but tomatoes... My neighbor, Sonya, I read smart articles, began to “negotiate” with my husband, express my complaints, speaking exclusively about my feelings... She told him - “Your lack of self-discipline, dirty socks under the bed upsets me...” He - “It deeply saddens me that when I come from work, I have to observe an empty pan, while you chatted with your friend on Skype all day.” She: “I get emotional when you talk about the new secretary at work...” He: “... And your robe and curlers plunge me into deep sexual indifference”... We almost got into a fight! They ran away, what... And they would have run away forever if they hadn’t had the sense to turn to a specialist. To which? Do you know anyone better than Rosa Markovna? ​​While they lived in different apartments, they didn’t talk: they exchanged “messages”... He gave her frozen chicken, she gave him an empty notebook with the inscription “My Orgasms”; he gave her a zero-size bra, she gave him a gym membership... Fun! And then I arranged a meeting for them, on Sonya’s territory, and said: “Sha! It will be for you, little children. You are now in a deep emotional relationship!” So, all of Sonya’s neighbors will remember that night: everyone heard how happy she was... They live now, soul to soul... And everything is an individual approach! And a sense of humor, of course...” Larisa Tishanskaya and Oleg Smagin recorded for Rosa Markovna.