What can convince a man that a woman is always right? Every self-respecting lady asks this question sooner or later. Indeed, how to convince your loved one to act this way and not otherwise? How to make him listen to your opinion, follow your valuable instructions, convince him to do what is useful for him? All these questions have not only answers, but also an algorithm of actions that is very simple and, at the same time, quite complex. Simple because you need to take very simple steps, and complex because it’s difficult to take these simple steps if you’re not used to it. And yet, let's begin to act.1. To begin with, you need to remember that a man most often has two positions in relation to a woman: - either I’m protecting you; - or I’m defending myself from you. Knowing this, it becomes clear that it is useless to argue with a man and talk at elevated levels. tones (unless, of course, you are faced with the task of making him henpecked). At best, he will go into deep defense, shut up and quietly wait for the storm to end, while becoming even more entrenched in his position. In the worst case, it will go on the attack, then you will have to wait out the tornado, and then follow its lead in order to somehow calm it down. In general, there is nothing left to do but choose the position of the person who needs to be protected. But how to do this?2. When you have decided that you no longer want to fight with your beloved and at the same time always win, then you need to pay attention to where, when and under what circumstances you make a suggestion to your loved one, trying to convince him of something or something ask. It is important to remember that it is best to enter into serious conversations with a man when he is full and satisfied, namely: after a meal, before bed, when you give him a relaxing massage at night or rub his back with a washcloth when he washes. It is undesirable to enter into a debate with a hungry, angry, dissatisfied or upset man who has just come home from work or had an unpleasant conversation with his mother.3. And so, he lies on the sofa, happy with life and himself. It's time to remember that forgotten conversation that had to be postponed until better times. The time has come! Before you start a conversation, imagine the creature that you want to caress, feed, and feel sorry for. Perhaps it will be a kitten who nicely rubs against your legs, purrs and looks devotedly into your eyes. Become this creature, feel that now you, a tiny, defenseless creature, will need to convince your “strict master” of what is necessary for you and useful for everyone! And only after that start the conversation.4. It’s best to start a conversation with what your dear friend is the best in the world, how lucky you are that he is next to you, how grateful you are to his parents for raising such a wonderful son. In general, tell him all the kindest, brightest, most tender things that you have in your heart for your loved one, without skimping (but in doses so that he doesn’t lose consciousness from surprise), at the very beginning of the conversation. This will make you feel how much you love him and how dear he is to you. On the other hand, your words will melt the heart of your knight, and he will listen carefully and with pleasure to everything you tell him next.5. Then you can move on to dreams and fantasies. For example, “how wonderful it would be if...”, “I would be so glad, everyone would feel so good when...”, “I wonder what would happen if you did...”, “do you remember our conversation? It seems to me that there are other options. Imagine...”6. Perhaps he will immediately disagree with you, moreover, this time he will say his weighty “no!” It’s best to agree with him: “Of course, you’re right! I just dreamed a little." You can end the conversation here and move on to more pleasant topics. You have already cast your fishing rod. Now all that remains is to wait. And you won’t have to wait long, from 2-3 days to 2-3 weeks, depending on the scale of the conversation. You might need a little.