People who are victims most often have a sore spot. This place is their wounded child. Difficulties with boundaries, inexplicable loss of face every time before criticism or attack. Loss of energy. Whoever attacks always claims your energy. Just like the one who saves by making another helpless. It is difficult for the victim to stand and defend himself; he experiences torment and grievances that he cannot voice. This is how psychosomatics and illnesses turn on. To do this, you need to admit that the parent was wrong. And prove it. And it’s almost impossible to do this, because the parent still doesn’t understand. He's right on his part. Who are these people? Who blocks their life by supporting opinions that may be wrong. These are people with great potential. Yes, they can sometimes be called naive or idealists, but...They remember unconditional love. And they know for sure that this is so. They treat others with an eye for the best and don't understand that people can use them until they fall into a trap. These are almost always leaders. They have exactly that. They are “attacked”, they are tense, diligent, but the “hole” in the soul haunts them. Leadership positions are energy potential. Almost endless in love. He presses and presses. If you try to pack a pillow in a sock bag, you'll get about the same thing. It’s cramped, stuffy and bad. What helps? Know: you won't be happy until you take it. Understand that skills help this. Initial aggression also helps, it is necessary to get out of the “package”. Usually, they need to separate themselves from their previous social circle. Go without proving yourself, but doing things for yourself. On the way of separation there are formidable “guards” - the family is already accustomed to the fact that you are a good person and should always understand. Why the attack? From the fact that the place of consciousness of such a person’s psyche is connected with the one in purity. Therefore, when the victim agreed and did not say “no” - the opinion of another has much greater power in materialization. This can be imagined as the Universe saying “yes” to someone who sticks to his line, and in the end he will be right - reality will support him due to the purity of the child’s soul. A leadership position always closes the triangle of suffering. And here you need to go into conflict, and this is always a challenge. To live in reality is to understand that human life is different from the consciousness of God and it must be accepted as it is. The impostor is actually a very strong person and he can only name himself. To name yourself - others will not name you - do not wait for support, especially at the beginning of formation. Others will join later and you will be surprised: they will say that you have always been like this. And this is not a paradox - reality will simply stand for you and your opinion and actions will be confirmed by it.