In the process of working with clients, I often come into contact with a very relevant and painful topic for many - the attitude of the expectant mother to her pregnancy, which I wrote about earlier in the article: https://www.b17 .ru/article/pervaja_reakcia_na_beremennost/?prt=752058 Read it and come back here. My statistics of such cases are simply stunning to me, and I decided to expand the field of this problem, or rather, plant it with the seeds of a solution. The further life of an unplanned small child, if he was nevertheless allowed born, goes under the same pressure of the negative meanings of the parents. They may not manifest themselves in words and actions, but the energy field continues to hold this destructive charge. As a result, the curved geometry of the path of a child, and then a grown adult, is built throughout life. Parents often do not realize this, but if they do, then they are absolutely In most cases, you are overcome by a ruthless feeling of guilt that haunts you for the rest of your life. Besides them, this feeling of guilt also extends to their child. The little man has to unload his parents by taking on this burden so that the ship of the family, like a closed system, does not sink. The impact of such a feeling of guilt on a child is very destructive. It turns life into a battlefield where there is a war with oneself; a program of self-destruction is literally activated. Such children, and then adults, unconsciously consider themselves not worthy of life. Dear girls, women, Mommies! Many of you, having read this article, realized your mistake and perhaps felt guilty for the negative unconscious impact on the life of your child, comparing this fact with the current state of your children in all areas of life. I want to emphasize that in most cases this impact is unconscious! I understand yours reaction, your feelings, and I even see how you throw up your hands, saying, if I had known, I would have done everything differently. You can change everything, believe me! You can help your children now, no matter what age they are. You can now adjust your relationship to love and understanding. If you see yourself in these situations, then you should not despair and reproach yourself. There are tools that will help you change the series of events! I suggest you do the technique of recapitulating an event in the past: It is best to do it together with a psychologist, but it can be done as part of self-help. Take a comfortable position, calm your breathing and relax your body. Turn to the subconscious and ask it help you, show an image of a situation in the past where your negative reaction to the news of pregnancy occurred. The subconscious will lead you, do not try to invent, but simply observe the images that come. Mentally look at yourself in the past from the outside, send a message to yourself to calmly accept the news, Be sincerely happy about your pregnancy, send an impulse of readiness for the birth of your child. Live this experience at the level of feelings and sensations of the body. By doing this, you will rewrite your story, creating the desired scenario. At the end of the practice, thank yourself and your subconscious for the work done. IMPORTANT! An indicator of correct implementation of the practice will be a feeling of lightness and calm in the body, especially in the area of ​​the center of the chest. Dear women, expectant mothers and caring men! Remember that your attitude towards each other and the fruit of your love largely determines the child’s life path. Let this Path be bright! With love and support, Psychologist, mentor Svetlana Averina Do you need help from a psychologist and mentor? Make an appointment by phone/WhatsApp +79173630605https://zen.yandex.ru/id/612732b6a4dce208e3aad87dhttps://www.parapsychologov.ru